clients say

"Your manner is both frank and welcoming. The experience really enabled me to start to see sex in a whole different light - to approach the subject as something that's fun and exciting that I can be part of, rather than finding it threatening and feeling like an outsider...Already I am allowing myself to think in a more sexual way!" Mrs. L, 46, France. 

WOMEN / Libido Hide and Seek

Do you find yourself whispering to your libido, "Come out, come out, wherever you are..."

There are a few reasons sexual desire can go missing:
1) Fatigue.
2) Boredom.
3) Fatigue. 

Fatigue from work, parenting, health issues, body changes, etc.  The list can be long.  Boredom generally stems from lack of of sensual creativity, communication blocks, and "hoping" that sexual compatibility will somehow, suddenly appear.

And here's the kicker: your sexual energy is a vital, creative, life affirming force...and living without it switched on means you are living with less energy available to you.  Less energy. Less motivation.  Less pleasure.  And 'round we go.

By returning to the basics, you can reclaim a vibrant, juicy connection to yourself - and thus, your libido. It may sound counter intuitive, but it's not.  Erotic energy will be your pathway to feeling more alive in your body.  Depending on your personal story, it may look and feel a bit different than before - but it can be as life affirming and powerful. 

Libido Hide and Seek  pleasure coaching does not substitute for medical and/or psychiatric diagnosis and treatment.  That is the responsibility of your physician. What I can do is help guide you in reactivating a part of yourself that may be dormant ....a part of yourself that you probably really miss.

In your private session we will draw from: 

  • Breathing and sound techniques that quiet the mind and enhance pleasure
  • Discovery of all your erogenous zones, not just the ones you think you know
  • Releasing of negative blockages
  • The joy of sensual creativity
  • Redefining sexual pleasure in a way that works for you
  • How to reasonably bring this energy back into your couple, or if you're solo, dating tips
  • Being more at ease with your body and its sexual responses
  • Cultivating and enjoying your orgasmic potential
  • Sex toy differences and what's right for you
  • Communication tips

And more. Sessions are tailored specifically to your needs and always honor your boundaries (while gently stretching them.)  Some combination of talk, breathwork, bodywork, conscious touch and massage will be employed, depending on your goals.  An at-home practice will be designed for you in order to reinforce your new learning.  Phone sessions are available if you are non-local.

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